How To Know Your Relationship Is Grieving

 Building and maintaining a healthy romantic relationship is never easy, relationships are hard. It

takes two willing people to keep the companionship secured. While disagreements keep coming up

in any relationship, both you and your partner should not stray off course; you should know how

to keep the love growing despite the bumps here and there. However, there may reach a point

where you both or either of you can no longer figure out how to overcome the hurdles and

sustain your relationship. It’s at that point that you know that the relationship is grieving.

Tips To Track Your Suffering Relationship

Here are some of the signs to watch out for to tell if your relationship is struggling.

Feeling Insecure

You have a right to feel happy and secure in your relationship. Note that if your partner is always

criticizing you and leaving you feeling less of a person then you are in a bad relationship. Your

partner should always feel happy and fabulous. If they are always making excuses and leaving

you worried and full of insecurities then that’s nothing less but a red flag.

Poor Communication

Speak up! Avoid burying things that make you feel upset or worried, that’s a relationship

distractor, it’s good to make your expectation known to your partner because they may not be

aware, speak to them so that you can come up with an effective solution, don’t forget

communication is key in running a relationship. Not all the time you should communicate bad

things to your time, congratulate them in small wins. Compliment them when necessary.

Lies That Don’t Add up

Dishonesty is destructive in all dimensions of life. Lies are destructive not only to your partner

but also to you. Always be real to your partner and be humble to apologize if you’ve made any

mistake, this is the only way to nourish your relationship with trust. Remember when lies, jealousy,

hate, and deception creeps in,relationship is destroyed

Getting Annoyed By Petty Things

If you could previously not notice some petty things your partner was doing but as time goes

by you start getting irritated by small things like snoring in their sleep or the sound they make

when eating, that is a sign of a dying relationship. Additionally, if you often find yourself

bad-mouthing your partners to your friends or colleagues, it means your love for him or her is

over. End that relationship.

Constant Fights

If a small disagreement escalates to full-blown fights, that clearly shows that your relationship is

beyond help, for instance in a healthy relationship when arguments arise which is a normal

thing, the ill-feeling fades out real quickly unlike in unhealthy ones. Moreover, if it becomes

difficult to sit down and sort out your differences in a sane way instead of blaming each other,

that’s an indication the relationship is at a dead end.

In a healthy relationship, couples enjoy spending time with each other and thus your partner is

your priority, so if your partner starts spending more time with friends or family that shows they

no longer value you. Counsellor Degge-white says

“if your fantasies are taking time and energy away from what you should be spending with your

partner, you’re probably crossing a line that you shouldn’t”

It’s Time To Make Up Your Mind

Many people are always reluctant to leave a relationship because of the time and investments

they have put in, for that case is advisable to spend more time fixing up issues that are putting

you apart for the sake of a long-term relationship. by all means do not avoid red flags.